I've been in all day and people have been phoning me for information.
These are friends who are not computer literate.
One actually tricked me into doing a translation .
I hate translating and proof reading with a vengance.
Still , I do like a challenge and I like to find out answers to questions - ask me a question and I feel COMPELLED to answer - so I will rack my brains and google and whatever I have to do to find out and give a reasonable answer.
In other news friend rang to complain about dumped boyfriend who we think is a narcissist and borderline personality, if one is to use labels , which is not nice, but sometimes we do anyway. What can you do but listen ? Nathing
Question is how much listening do you do before you unconsciously start to feed her obsessession ? I know she is really miserable ,tired , overworked, can't sleep, manic... it 's been like this for as long as I've known her. She and suffering are bedfellows. Fixing someone does not work . They have to want to fix themselves. Complaining all the time is no use. People have to be willing to change.
I shall make this affirmation my mantra too.
" I AM WILLING TO CHANGE "
Some of what I see in others obviously applies to me too.
And so to bed .. night night Blogland .
I wonder what shopwing tonight at the " Dreamland " cinema




