Funny how that happens.
In answering friend's questions on here I find myself writing reams about myself that turns out to be quite revealing and interesting. I have to ask myself " why here ? " and " why now ?"
I suppose these things appear when the time is right.
It might start with someone asking baout white lies, another asking for relationship advoce and then also feedback on my own ventilating and rants.
Here's something I wrote just now regarding relationships.
My mum and dad were married for over 50 years until he died 7 years ago. They were dovoted to each other but also quite different, My dad needed to socialise more whereas my mum was quite happy to stay at home.
Every Friday night he would escape to The Club for a pint or two with his friends at " The Club ". the Latvian Welfare Fund where he was treasurer. He was greatly respected there and appreciated and I think he thrived on praise and flattery which he didn't get at home. ¨
My mum , bless her, is a feisty , practical down to earth woman who likes to nag and not easy to love as she always speaks her mind and blurts out the first thing that comes into her head.
Dad would wind her up no end but when it came to push and shove he loved her dearly and would respect her opinion. They had different personalities and different needs.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
In other news , I heard from NG the rat yesterday, It's the year of the Rat.LOL
