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This is genius !
Thanks dave41 http://screen.blog.co.uk/

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My friend Mikael, otherwise known as " Purser Polly " told me that M.N. had been a passenger on his flight.

About 30 years ago when I first came to Sweden,M.N was my neighbour and we got to know eachother the day we moved in. He and his friends were a chirpy lively bunch of 6th formers at the time. MN with the help of his friends used to babysit for the Prof. When I came home sometimes the partying would continue until the early hours of the morning and then we would be all invited upstairs to where he lived for breakfast.

MN studied drama and was very talented. Son he was appearing in plays and getting leading roles. I used to go to all his performances. Then we moved and I think it was after that that we started to lose touch. MN became more and more famous and is now a quite a celebrity. I've seen his films and think he is fabulous - a very special unusual soul.

I was so happy to hear trhe details of Purser Polly's chat with MN during the short flight from Copenhagen to Stockholm. He'd asked about me and the prof and has invited us to come and see him in a play and go for drinks afterwards.FUN ! It will be great to see him again in person after all these years.

Mid life is ...

A time to rewrite the script of your life to include more miraculous opportunities. A time to realise that the world is full of gifts blessings and infinite possibilities.
It is a time to move forward safely with confidence knowing that all is well in your future. Mid life is a time to finally release the weight of unprocessed pain and resolve all unresolved issues.It is a time to surrender to the will of your soul- simply get out of the way, because your soul knows what's best for you.

Midlife is time to embrace joy instead of suffering and time to start mothering and pampering yourself instead of always catering to the whims and needs and demands of others. When your " well of fuel " is dry , there is nothing to give to others.

Now is the time to realise that you are a multidimensional being as well as human being
Mid life is the the time :

to bring magic back into your life.
to take a stand, once and for all, against the enemy and saboteurs within you.
to use the experience of your life's struggles and challenges as catalysts for personal growth.

It is important to learn to receive and to surrender to pleasure : to practise the discipline of pleasure.

It's important to celebrate your life.
It is important to feel good.
It's important to enjoy yourself.
It's important to smile into your heart for two minutes every morning and to really listen to your heart 's desires.

Sex is important in mid life :" to have the best sex of your life —all you have to do is get in the right frame of mind. The brain is the biggest sex organ in the body, you need to learn how to turn yourself on by reading romance novels, going on weekend getaways with your lover and letting go of inhibitions by giving up perfection.

Once the mind is ready, there is another sex organ that needs attention.

Less than 25 percent of women reach orgasm only through intercourse, and the reason is that the clitoris needs more attention than it gets during intercourse. The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, whose sole purpose is pleasure."

Dr Christiane Northrup.

Dr. Northrup's five steps to better sex:

Get hormonal support if you have vaginal dryness. "If you've had a hysterectomy with your ovaries removed, you may need some hormonal support."

You can either be angry or have pleasure—not both. "If you are pissed off chronically, you can't get turned on because the blood won't go where it needs to go."

Practice self-cultivation (Dr. Northrup's word for masturbation). "Every woman needs to practice self-cultivation so she learns what feels good, what doesn't and [how] you can learn to feel more."

Update your own sexual image. "There's an exercise you can do. Think of a sexy woman. You can walk down the street thinking that sexy woman is plastered to the left side of your body and breathe her in. You can have that essence in you."

Learn how to receive, surrender and give feedback. "You need to learn to receive and surrender to pleasure—this is a discipline."

In addition to Dr. Northrup's tips, make sure there isn't a deeper issue contributing to your low sex drive. "Perimenopause and menopause, there's nothing about it that decreases frequency of orgasm or libido in a lot of women. However, a lot of women experience decreased libido because they've put a lot of problems in the relationship under the rug and they also need some time alone to rediscover themselves."

Mid life is a time to go slower in order to go deeper.

Hot flushes are really POWER SURGES !