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  • Return of the Pidges and other news.

    They're back .. at least I think they are ;)
    Some sort of mating ritual in progress.
    Was woken up this morning by a lot of cooing noises and found one Mr Pidge or was is Mrs Pidge ? I'm not sure.

    Pidge strutted around , looking in all directions with its head as they do , landed .. strutted over to the abandoned nest in flower pot turned around a few times, cooing all the while , hopped off, hopped back on again ..repeating this for a while until I got bored watching them through the balcony window and went back to bed.

    Now at 11am they're both there, necking away , beak to beak and taking turns to prune each other. He nibbles her neck while she submits passively and then she starts kissing him and nibbling his ear and then his back while he seems to inflate .. puff up .... fascinating ;)

    In other news, my young house guest stayed the night at a friend's house.

    Was it alright ?
    If your safe and happy , it is ,
    Are you safe and happy ?
    Yes
    Well , it's alright but keep in touch. Have a good time.

    I hope I'm doing the right thing. I'm neither mother nor guardian. I'm not responsible , but I do care. :yes:

    Right , shower, breakfast , then out.
    TTFN happy Sunday , everyone :wave:

  • Mira's bread report

    The second bread, baked with my homemade leaven #6, turned out well too :)
    Thank you for your attention in this matter ;)

    X

  • Words

    Woke up and read what Eckhart Tolle writes about Words. ( A New Earth )

    I've always felt inadequate when it comes to describing what I see or have experienced in words. Wrapping experiences up in words does not come easy to me.

    Now , I'm thinking , this can be a blessing.:)

    Words can be labels which then hypnotise us into believing things are something other than what they are.

    Simply being with a flower , or a stone and allowing it to communicate its ESSENCE is much more true.... much closer to the truth of what it is all about .

    Labels pinch like tight shoes.

    :yes:

    :)

  • First bread



    This is the first bread made from leaven starter ( 6 days old )  using white flour and without using commercial yeast !! Fantastic. Proof that it is possible .

    Baked in very hot oven 250C for 15 minutes , brushed with olive oil.

    It is YUMMY !

    I'm not sure what experts would say about texture and crust etc, but it really tastes good and is not heavy or yeasty .

    "mira's pride " ;) :))

  • Day 6 of leaven

    It's day five no six of leaven - leaven , as you might know from previous posts is the rising agent I'm making to use instead of yeast to make bread the old - fashioned way , before yeast became commercially available in shops.

    I've taken a bit of the stuff and made a little bit of dough , which is now rising. RISING , I tell you !

    *Proud*

    I don't think it is my imagination , either.

    We shall see, soon enough.
    Patience .

    :)

    X

    Started this leaven experiment on 21st August . The stars indicate the refreshments.

    Day 6 , nice and frothy

    Had to try a bit to see if it works and it does seem to be working !
    The indentation is where I prodded it with my finger .
    Not quite ready yet.

  • Good evening

    It was , I mean it IS a good evening.

    My friend and colleague L.S. came round for dinner. Seems like ages since we last met. Lots of chin wagging .. a good jaw session.

    We spoke about the need to be really silly ... to laugh .. really deep laughter, the sort where you look at each other and can't stop , where one sets the other off.. deep belly laughter that goes until tears stream down your face and you roll around on the floor. :)

    To have fun and not to take life so seriously as we tend to do in our jobs where seriousness is much appreciated.

    Laughter is so healing.

    Well ..midnight again.... best go before I turn into a pumpkin or something ..... :wave: night night

  • Think in ways you've never thought before.

    '

     
    Things to Think
     
    Think in ways you've never thought before.
    If the phone rings, think of it as carrying a message
    Larger than anything you've ever heard,
    Vaster than a hundred lines of Yeats.

    Think that someone may bring a bear to your door,
    Maybe wounded and deranged; or think that a moose
    Has risen out of the lake, and he's carrying on his antlers
    A child of your own whom you've never seen.

    When someone knocks on the door,
    Think that he's about
    To give you something large: tell you you're forgiven,
    Or that it's not necessary to work all the time,
    Or that it's been decided that if you lie down no one will die.

    ~ Robert Bly ~

    from : http://www.panhala.net/Archive/Things_to_Think.html

    I like this man's thinking !


  • Dead phoney story

    The phone is still dead.

    About 6 o'clock last night , it rang a faint weak little ring , then nothing. When I picked it up again, it was dead.

    Funny thing is though , the last two calls were both marketing calls from telephone companies. One from Com Hem , a cable company and the other from Glocalnet.

    I fobbed both of them off,

    Now, if I didn't know better , I might think that one of them, perhaps Glocalnet had hexed my phone. I was nicer to ComHem as they are my internet service provider. ;)

    What do you reckon ? :roll:

  • Good morning , all

    Today is a new day :)

    The phone is still dead :(

    The leaven is bubbling away with life. :)

    I feel as though I've been through an emotional cleanse.

    Had my first acupuncture session yesterday, with Marita, from Finland .
    She has kind eyes and the demeanor of a healer.
    I like her.
    This is going to work.

    During the session that lasted for about 45 minutes my stomach gurgled, I sighed five times and dosed off a couple of time and felt goodon all levels.

    Fell into bed exhausted last night.

    But .. today is a new day... and all is well. The sun is shining and it is a cool 16C.
    TTFN :wave: enjoy your day !

  • Sunday evening mumbles

    Writing this to the hum of the dishwasher.

    Had a lovely long chat on the phone with my middle sister. She's really good at keeping in touch and one of the rare few who still send cards and letters by snail mail.

    I used to be good at writing letters. BI,( before internet) Not any more. It's not just the writing , but buying stamps , finding a post box and remembering to post it that is the challenge. Lots of steps involved.

    The leaven is bubbling away in the kitchen , but still not powerful enough. It's only day 3 . A week more to go. 'Refreshing' requires that you remove a cup of the starter , discard and replace it with flour and water. I've been using this discarded stuff to make chapatti type flat bread in the pan, the type that doesn't need to rise that much. Sop far so good.

    Enjoyed dinner: wholegrain rise risotto with onions, mushrooms, onions , cream and a handful of crushed walnuts and an avocado, cucumber and tomato salad with that.

    Think I'll have an early night tonight and try and get up early tomorrow. My home is a mess and exceeding creative chaos tolerance level.

    Enjoy your evening everyone :wave:

    x

  • 10 principles of joyful living

    I love these 10 principles for joyfull living .
    The first one reminds me very much of the end scene in Monty Python's Life Of Brian ... always look on the bright side of Life . You come from nothing - you go back to nothing- what have you lost ? NOTHING !  Comedy and tragedy , I think we need to hold them both as we go through Life.

    1. The Healthiest Response to Life Is Laughter.

    This first principle serves as an antidote to fear and sorrow by encouraging you to experience life as joyous....When you feel momentary happiness, or you want to burst out laughing, or you smile for no apparent reason, you are glimpsing eternal reality....In time, these moments of joy will begin to knit together. Instead of the exception, they will become the norm. There is no better way to know that you are growing in God-realization.

    2. There Is Always a Reason to Be Grateful.

    This second principle is an antidote to victimization....The purpose of gratitude is to connect yourself to a higher vision of life....Once you realize that you alone are the projector of reality, you will no longer be dominated by external events. You will correct the mistake that lies at the very root of victimization: a belief that the movie controls you, instead of the other way around.

    3. You Belong in the Scheme of the Universe. There's Nothing to Be Afraid Of. You Are Safe.

    The third principle is the antidote for insecurity....The role assigned to you is right and proper. It is tailor-made for you, for your complete self....The voice of fear tries to convince you that you are a helpless victim of chance. The very opposite is true. At the deepest level, the level of the soul, you are the author of everything that happens to you.

    4. Your Soul Cherishes Every Aspect of Your Life.

    The fourth principle is the antidote for feeling undervalued. It states that your worth is absolute, and that everything that happens to you - whether it feels good at the time or not - is part of a divine plan unfolding from the level of the soul....A person's worth is the value of a soul, which is infinite. Since every event in your life isn't happening just to a person but to a soul, everything in life should be cherished.

    5. There Is a Plan, and Your Soul Knows What It Is.

    The fifth principle is the antidote to meaninglessness. It states that your life has a purpose. You determine that purpose at the soul level, and then that purpose unfolds in daily life as part of the divine plan. The more deeply you are connected to the plan, the more powerful it becomes in your life. Ultimately, nothing can stop it.

    6. Ecstasy Is the Energy of Spirit. When Life Flows, Energy Is Natural.

    The sixth principle is the antidote to inertia. It states that infinite energy is available to you. You are a co-creator with God. To claim your creative power, you need only connect with the primal energies that play within you....The kind of energy you can call upon at any given moment depends on your level of consciousness.

    7. There Is a Creative Solution to Every Problem. Every Possibility Holds the Promise of Abundance.

    The seventh principle is the antidote to failure. It tells us that every question includes its own answer. The only reason a problem arises before its solution is that our minds are limited - we think in terms of sequences, of before and after. Outside the narrow boundaries of time, problems and solutions arise at the same instant.

    8. Obstacles are Opportunities in Disguise.

    The eighth principle is the antidote to inflexibility....The secret is to abandon old habits and trust in spontaneity....Whenever you catch yourself reacting in an old, familiar way, simply stop. Don't invent a new reaction; don't fall back on the opposite of what you usually do. Instead, ask for openness. Go inside, be with yourself, and allow the next reaction to come of its own accord.

    9. Evolution Leads the Way Through Desire.

    The ninth principle is the antidote to hypocrisy. It encourages us to act on our genuine desires, because they show the way to real growth. Don't pretend to be better - or other - than you are. Don't fall into the trap of having one face for the world and another to God. Who you really are is exactly who you should be.

    10. Freedom Is Letting Go.

    The tenth principle is the antidote to attachment....If you let go of what isn't real in your life, what's left will be real: what's left is God alone....To be free, you must find a way to let go of all the stuck energy that keeps sending the same old messages....The past is a false guide to the future, and yet it's what most of us rely upon. By letting go of stuck energies, you let go of your past.
     
     
        
    The Path to Joy
    (Adapted from "Why is God Laughing: The Path to Joy and Spiritual Optimism" by Deepak Chopra, Harmony Books, 2008)

    Deepak Chopra & Family Blog
    http://blog.beliefnet.com/choprafamily/
    Video: 'God Is Laughing'
    http://blog.beliefnet.com/choprafamily/2008/06/video-god-is-laughing.html
    Interview with Deepak Chopra
    http://www.beliefnet.com/story/154/story_15474_1.html
    The Path to Joy
    10 Principles of Spiritual Optimism
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    By Deepak Chopra

  • Spirituality in a Material World

    I think this is a great interview . The underlining is mine , btw
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    Spirituality in a Material World

    Awareness isn't something you achieve, says Deepak Chopra. It's what happens when you stop trying so hard.

    Interview by Lisa Schneider

    Deepak ChopraCalled "the poet-prophet of alternative medicine" by Time magazine, Deepak Chopra, M.D., is the founder and CEO of the Chopra Center for Well Being in Carlsbad, California. Dr. Chopra was born and raised in India and came to the United States in 1970 to train and then practice internal medicine and endocrinology. He has since developed his own philosophy of wellness that combines Ayurvedic healing with Western medicine and focuses on a balance between mind, body, and spirit. Dr. Chopra is the author of more than 30 books on a variety of topics ranging from herbal medicine, aging, and meditation, to quantum mechanics, golf, and the poems of Rumi. He spoke with us about his latest work, "The Book of Secrets."

    I was surprised by what you wrote about spiritual seeking. You say, "Seeking is doomed because it is a chase that takes you outside yourself." But it seems that some of your biggest fans are spiritual seekers.

    You know, we all go through those phases at a certain point. The seeker will realize that what they're seeking is the one who's doing the seeking.

    Seeking can become stressful when you apply the same laws that you apply in the material world—hard work, exacting plans, driving ambition, and attachment to outcome. Ultimately spiritual awareness unfolds when you're flexible, when you're spontaneous, when you're detached, when you're easy on yourself and easy on others.
    (Read an excerpt about spiritual seeking from Deepak Chopra's book.)

    Are there practical steps that people can take to increase their awareness?

    Yeah, in the Eastern traditions, those steps have been referred to as the different kinds of yoga. Yoga literally means union, so the yoga of knowledge, which is a scientific understanding of how the universe operates—the yoga of love, which is paying attention to the impulse of love, which is, after all, the impulse toward unity. The yoga of stillness or contemplation or meditation. And also, the yoga of action, the attitude you have when you perform action, when you do yoga in the spiritual worship or when you have the inner conviction that everything you do comes from God, belongs to God and that every breath of yours and every movement of yours is a divine movement of the eternal being, then those are the steps that bring you closer to the supreme intelligence that orchestrates the universe.

    Your book suggests our body chemistry can tell us about our consciousness. How so?

    Look at the cells and how they function, you see that each cell has higher awareness. It is doing what it does to maintain the welfare of the rest of the body. The stomach cell's not saying, why should I digest food for the heart and the brain? And the brain doesn't say, why should I regulate the activity of the stomach? So they are inseparably interdependent. They have higher awareness.

    Each cell has creativity because every time there is a challenge to the body, the body has to come up with a creative solution. Each cell knows how to commune with other cells instantly, both locally and non-locally, each cell is bonded to every other cell, each cell practices what it does with maximum efficiency—it never hoards anything. Each cell obeys the laws of giving and receiving, each cell has awareness of what's happening in the body, and each cell knows the secret of immortality, because even as it dies, it passes on everything it knows to the next generation of cells.

    So if you want to look at the human body as an example of consciousness, it's a direct reflection. Consciousness conceives, governs, constructs, and becomes the activity of the body. And in every human body, or for that matter, in every biological organism, there is an inner intelligence that reflects the wisdom of the universe and is, in fact, the ultimate and supreme genius.

    You say that our bodies are always experiencing dying–that "Cells are constantly dying and being replaced" and then ask the rhetorical question, so what are we so afraid of? Why do you think the fear of death seems to be built into us?

    The fear of death comes from limited awareness. As long as you think of your real self as the person you are, then of course you're going to be fearful of death. But what is a person? A person is a pattern of behavior, of a larger awareness. You know, the two-year-old dies before the three-year-old shows up, the three-year-old dies before the teenager shows up.

     

    So the real you is neither the perceiver, nor the object of perception, but the real you is that formless spirit that is constantly evolving and sometimes even taking quantum leaps of evolution and expressing itself as both the perceiver and the object of perception. And if you can shift your internal reference point from your skin-encapsulated ego to that larger domain of awareness, then you will find that it's your ticket to freedom—that you do not need to fear death because you're already dying every moment to the past.

    The fear of death is the fear of the unknown
    , and yet, the fact is, we live and breathe and move in the unknown all the time. The unknown is from this moment onwards—you're already living there. You have the pretend game that you're living in the known, but the known doesn't exist anymore, it's already gone. Everything you know is about the past. So you have to both intellectually and experientially be willing to embrace uncertainly, ambiguity, and step into the unknown. The known is a prison of past conditioning. The unknown is always a fresh field of possibilities.

    Would you equate this constant evolving and recycling with reincarnation?

    You can say that, but you know, there's only one "I" in the end pretending to be all these different "I"s so I really don't even believe there's such a thing as a person; there's only the infinite pretending to be a person, as a temporary pattern of behavior. So what does reincarnate is the wisps of memory and threads of desire, born of past experience.

    You write that unity, as opposed to duality, is "the purpose of evolution." What do you mean?

    The fact that we experience separation is really a perceptual artifact. There's only a single reality that differentiates into both mind and body and then from body and environment. So our perceptual experience of the environment is different than the body, the body is different from the mind, and the mind is different from the soul.

    There are two types of ignorance that we come to in this world, one is innate ignorance, which is this perceptual artifact of separation and the other is cultural ignorance.

    Just like, your DNA, for example, differentiates into the different cells of your body, your heart cells and your brain cells, and your kidney cells are different in appearance, but not different in their essence. They came from the same double strand of DNA and if I wanted to isolate the DNA in every cell of your body, even though these belong to different organs, I'd get the same information. So the appearance of the expression of the different organs in the body is different, but it's still the same essence. So, too, every observer is a differentiated aspect of a single observer and every object of perception is a differentiated expression of the same observer, because the observer and the observed, the seer and the scenery, the knower and the known are differentiated aspects of a single consciousness. The goal of all spiritual seeking is to realize that experientially and intellectually—but more importantly experientially.

    Cultural ignorance is when we take these ideas of duality and then we create institutions around them—so religious and cultural and social indoctrination perpetuates the ignorance.

    Do you believe humanity as a whole is evolving toward unity, toward a "New Age," a new level of consciousness on a global scale?

    Yeah. I think it would need a critical mass of people to reach a certain level of awareness for humanity as a whole to be affected so I do not know when that would happen. I think the fact that we now have technology, for example, the Internet—Beliefnet, for example—to take information and knowledge and you can rapidly spread it to so many people. That could never have happened say, 2,000 years ago. But today, I personally look at the Internet as the cloning of collective consciousness, our collective soul, it could be much faster than we think it's going to be.

    In another interview you said that "religion pulls us apart and spirituality brings us together in love." Do you think that someone who identifies with organized religion can benefit from your books, from this philosophy?

    Religious people can only learn from this kind of philosophy if they go to the basic experience of the founder of their religion. And then they'll realize that Christ wasn't a Christian and that Buddha wasn't a Buddhist and Muhammad wasn't Muslim. These people were having the experience of unity consciousnesses and universal consciousness and they spoke of it in words. So if you're a real Christian, you should be listening to what Christ said in the Sermon on the Mount and then you are expressing the universality of spiritual consciousness.

    Because if you claim that your religion is exclusive and that your God is exclusive, then how can that God manage the whole universe? We are one speck of dust in probably the junkyard of infinity and there are billions of galaxies with billions of planets and billions of solar systems. We should not diminish the magnificence of God by giving him a sexist male identity, an ethnic background, squeezing him or her into the volume of a body and the span of a lifetime and a regional geography. That's really not paying a pure respect to the magnificence of the Almighty.

    You grew up in a Hindu family in India. Do you consider yourself Hindu today?

    No. I'm distressed that Hindus can be as violent as anybody else, the only difference is that they're vegetarians.

    Would you talk a little bit about your own spiritual practice?

    I meditate two hours in the morning and about half an hour in the evening. And I go to the gym for about 1 hour which I consider to be a really spiritual practice as well. And then I have the attitude during the rest of the day that the only step I'm taking that's real is the one I'm taking at the moment, so I try not to anticipate the future or think about the past, but stay grounded in the moment. And those are the mostly, daily practices—meditations, exercise, and staying in the moment. Once every three or four months, I try to take a week of silence in the wilderness and sometimes my family will join me but sometimes I'll do it all by myself.

    When I interviewed your son two years ago, he said that two of the qualities that inspired him, of yours were your curiosity and your not taking life too seriously.

    [laughs] That's probably true.

    Do you think these qualities can serve as spiritual tools?

    I think so. I think seriousness is a mask of self-importance and self-importance in turn is a mask for self-pity. So if you're really going to pursue a spiritual way of living in the world, you must be lighthearted and carefree, have humor, be able to tolerate ambiguity and embrace uncertainty, and be forgiving of yourself and everybody else.

     

    Lisa Schneider is a Beliefnet editor.

  • Free association

    Paulo Coelho has , on his page , this free association game on a word. This week's word is " THE ROCK ".

    Here's my 5 minutes worth of free association on THE ROCK

    THE rock is the huge diamond on a lady's finger.

    Rocks record all the secrets that have ever been whispered or shouted or thought by anyone through the ages.

    Rocks rock with rock artists rock around the clock.

    Rock is a kind of fish, Roberto told me that it was on the menu at the fish and chip shop in Earl'sCourt. I didn't believe him , so he took me there one day and we had rock and chips.

    Rock as in Brighton Rock and Rock from Robbin Hoods Bay. A pink stick of rock that tastes of peppermimt with letters running all the way through. Available in many colours , but pink it is the best.

    Rock a bye baby,
    on the tree top
    When the wind blows
    the cradle will rock
    When the bough brakes
    the cradle with fall
    and down will come baby
    cradle and all,

    Night night :)
    X

    Want to have a go ? :wave:

  • I'm into leaven

    Almost forgot ...
    My latest obsession is leaven as in leavened bread :)

    When you make bread, you need a rising agent, usually yeast that you buy in the shop which comes in a small chunk wrapped in yellow paper or powdered in s sachet.

    Well, a friend of mine has been harping on about making her own leaven and the umpteen different steps and how it takes about 10 days that I've decided to give it a go.

    Bread from scratch.

    Surely it can't be all that difficult.

    I've researched and found quite a lot of recipes.

    It is now day 2 and , I may be very premature, but I am attempting to raise my dough from the mixture I started 2 days ago ;)

    Will it rise to the occasion ?
    I'll let you know :)

    Has anyone else tried this ?

  • Melancholic heartfelt mumblings

    I should, COULD have gone to a vernissage today, but , quite frankly, I couldn't be bothered.

    A part of me is nagging at me for not going.
    Too bad.
    I made promise to myself never to do anything that I didn't feel like doing and to honour that feeling.
    Sop there !
    Now all I have to do is deal with the nagging " you should have " thoughts and feeling bad about not going.

    Truth is, I am feel sad and sensitive today.. sort of skinless.
    A dear friend's mother could be crossing over to another dimension.
    I've lit a candle for her and I am bathing in thoughts and feelings, wiping away a few tears.
    I love my soul friends , my Anam Cara, and don't like it when they leave. It's hard letting go.
    This is not the time for milling around strangers in a strange environment making polite small talk.
    I want the cocoon of my home, the soft candlelight and spicy arabian incense.

  • Night night

    Night night ... sleep tight

    :wave:

    XX

  • Friday evening with pasta, Casanova and vino rosso

    Settling into Friday evening very nicely, I am .

    Made tortellini in creamy chanterelle sauce and it was divine.
    *licks lips*
    The film Lasse Hallströms " CASANOVA " 2005 is on TV.

     

    A partially true story about lies told, virtue lost and love found.


    In love, be the flame - not the moth


    He won every woman's heart. She won his.


    There's no greater adventure than true love.

     

    Colourful
    Slightly naughty
    Entertaining.
    Next best thing to the real thing.

    See you later ...enjoy your Friday evening , Blogland .

    Hugs and kisses

  • Moon and Mars , 27 August , another hoax ?

    I was got so excited when I hear about the moon and mars event , 27 August 2008.

    It seems that this spectacular event has been around a few times before :)

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/science/nature/3184157.stm

    http://www.hoax-slayer.com/mars-earth-close.html

    I was looking forward to this two moon event !

    *disappointed*

    DISCERNMENT  in all things .


  • The Ocean as a Metaphor

    The is part of a Mermaid's beautiful blog entry I stumbled across this morning and it reminded me of Mermaidstale blog here in BCUK

    The ocean is a metaphor for our being. The waves come and go. We can run away, or let them move through us, and stay in contact with them as best as we can. It takes great faith in my practice to learn to stay, no matter what is occurring. It also takes compassion to be forgiving and gentle with myself when I am running away.

    May I entrust myself to the waves.
    May my heart expand beyond the sea where the sky and earth can hold everything.

    May you entrust yourself to the waves.
    May your heart expand beyond the sea where the sky and earth can hold everything.

    From : www.mermaidhealing.blogspot.com

  • Embracing the mystery

    if anyone asks you,
    'how the perfect satisfaction
    of all our sexual wanting will look?'
    lift your face and say,
    like this!

    if anyone wonders,
    'how Jesus raised the dead!'
    don't try to explain the miracle.
    kiss me on the lips,
    like this!

    when some one asks,
    'what it means to die for love?'
    point here!

    when lovers moan,
    they are telling our story.
    like this!

    - Embracing the Mystery - Rumi, version by Coleman Barks

  • Sunset after thunder and rain

  • A word that kindles the soul

    The whole world's treasure is too small a price to pay for a word that kindles the soul.

    Bowl of Saki, by Hazrat Inayat Khan

    http://wahiduddin.net/mv2/III/III_III_4.htm

  • Tatties

    Stick a sprouting spud in soil and reap the rewards a few months later :)

    That's what I did.

    Ate my home grown tatties , lightly sautéed in a small cast iron pan with virgin olive and a little herb salt. :)

    Thing is, there was just a hint ... a "soupcon" ( excuse my French spelling ) of Indian spices left in the pan , that greatly enhanced the flavour without taking over.

    MMmmmmmmmmm YUM :) :)

  • Working overtime

    Woke up chuckling to myself - I've been working in my sleep. In my dreams, that is. :yes:

    Last night's dream : I am teaching a Dutchman business English . He is tall, dark, thin , wears a suit, ( a bit like Basil Fawlty , come to think of it ) but with huge horn-rimmed glasses. He has a heavy Dutch accent and looks a bit of a Geek.

    I've had one lesson with him, perhaps standing in for someone else and he then appears at the door of the room where I'm staying in a hotel. It's an attic room . I'm on my way out but he pleads with me to help him and so we go to a bar to talk. I find it difficult to understand him, but do the best I can. I think I agree to one or two lessons.Then I pick up my things and leave.

  • The healing power of radical forgiveness

    How Radical Forgiveness Works by Colin Tipping

    Ordinary forgiveness is 'letting bygones be bygones'. A certain willingness to forgive is implied but the belief something wrong happened is never questioned. "You did that to me, but I'll let you off the hook and forgive you."

    Research based at Seattle University, WA showed that ordinary forgiveness:

    (a) is universally difficult.
    (b) takes a long time - typically years. (Success was defined as finally feeling peaceful=2 0about the situation.)
    (c) The more people tried to 'will' forgiveness, the longer it took.
    (d) Most people required extensive therapy before any movement occurred at all.

    Radical Forgiveness on the other hand, has none of these difficulties. It can be virtually instantaneous; it is easy to do; it requires no therapy and very little intelligence beyond being able to follow some very simple steps.

    No Crime Has Happened

    Holding on to the belief that 'a crime' has occurred while trying to forgive gives traditional forgiveness the quality of an oxymoron. How can you can possibly forgive if you are invested in that judgment? No wonder it takes years! Qualities of compassion, humility and tolerance move us towards it, but they do not, in my view, constitute forgiveness itself. So when it does finally occur maybe time has simply worn down our attachment to our judgments. When we say "time heals" perhaps we are recognizing that we will some day simply become weary of holding on. But oh, what a struggle!

    Radical Forgiveness is Easy

    Radical Forgiveness, on the other hand, is easy and instantaneous because it is a shift in perception that allows you to understand that, in truth, looked at from the perspective of the spiritual 'big picture,' nothing wrong ever happened.

    What brings about such a radical shift in perception - especially in situations where one feels very victimi zed and hurt? Surprisingly, it requires only a willingness to accept the possibility that life is not simply a series of random and haphazard events but is, in fact, the unfoldment of a Divine plan that is unfolding for us exactly how it needs to unfold for our spiritual growth. In other words, every event, however pleasant or unpleasant, has been called forth by a Higher Aspect of ourselves that knows exactly what we need for our own healing. When we live more out of that idea than the victim story, life begins to work perfectly.

    So how do we get there? Well, lack of forgiveness is nothing more than stuck energy, caused by past judgments, criticisms, blame and resentments. The way forward is use tools or processes that help us release that stuck energy, raise our vibration and become the loving beings we have the potential to be.

    THE PROCESS OF RADICAL FORGIVENESS.

    In my workshops, I help people to shift the energy and move into Radical Forgiveness by basically following these five steps:

    1. Tell the Story: You must begin from where you are. You are a spiritual being having a human experience that involves emotional experiences. We make it up that emotions are undesirable and wrong, so when we get upset about something we make up a 'victim's story' and blame others for our unhappiness. Having that story heard and witnessed is the first step to letting it go. Likewise, the first step in releasing victimhood is to own it fully. So, in this step, you tell your story, and it is honored as your truth in the moment.

    2. Feel the Feelings: Here you are encouraged to feel the feelings. It is the vital step that many so-called spiritual people want to leave out thinking that they shouldn't have 'negative' feelings. That's denial and misses the crucial point that the feelings is where the authentic power is and that our strength, in fact, lies in our vulnerability and our willingness to show up as fully human. You cannot heal what you don't feel. When people access their pain, this is the beginning of their healing.

    But this is not necessarily digging up the past. In fact, doing so is not necessary at all. Whatever is upsetting you now represents the past and following the feelings (the energy), as they are occurring while you tell your story, automatically heals the past pain. It is not even necessary to know what the original pain was. That's why I say that Radical Forgiveness requires no therapy.

    3. Collapse the Story: This takes the power out of the victim story you made up. The Navajo Indians had a ceremony for doing this. Anyone with a grievance could come to the circle three times to tell their story, and they would be heard. On the fourth occasion everyone would turn their backs. "Enough already! Your story is just a story. There's no real truth to it - it is just an illusion. We have heard it three times and we no longer wish to give it power. Let it go and then let yourself move towards what is really true."

    4. Do a Radical Forgiveness Reframe: Here we replace the 'illusionary' story with another story - the Radical Forgiveness 'story.' This one says that what appeared to have happened, far from being a tragedy, was in fact exactly what we wanted to experience and was in that sense, absolutely perfect.

    This is often very difficult to accept, but the good thing is it does not require you see WHY it is perfect, or that you must GET the lesson involved. It is nearly always beyond our ability to comprehend anyway, so it's a waste of time trying to figure it out. Willingness is all that is required You just have to be willing to open to the idea that there is a gift in it somewhere, and then choose peace. It really is that simple. When we get used to thinking this way, it's amazing how simple and easy life becomes. It's so freeing to stop resisting (judging) life and surrender to what wants to naturally occur. Life with Radical Forgiveness can be very sweet.

    5. Integration: After you have allowed yourself to be willing to see the perfection in the situation, it is necessary to integrate that change at the cellular level. That means integrating it into the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies so it becomes a part of=2 0who you are. It's like saving what you have done on the computer to the hard drive. Only then will it become permanent. I find that breathwork is the best way to integrate this work and I seldom ever do a Radical Forgiveness workshop without what I call a 'Satori' breath session. Other ways to integrate is through speaking affirmations, walking, doing forgiveness worksheets, ritual and ceremony.

    In the Forgiveness Tools section of my book I give extensive instruction on how to use the forgiveness worksheet. This simple tool embodies all the above steps and has proven most effective in helping people to shift the energy around situations. The same is true of a process called The 13 Steps to Forgiveness, which is the same process but on CD. It simply requires you to listen to 13 questions to which you answer "Yes." It sounds so simple - and it really is. But it is also extremely powerful.

    Radical Forgiveness is the only real forgiveness. It is simple, quick and brings immediate relief. This forgiveness is permanent and when one has integrated it well enough into everyday life for it to become a way of life, life becomes infinitely less stressful, more peaceful and a whole lot happier.
    _____________________________________________________________

    Colin Tipping, is the acknowledged authority on the application of this technology to the "healing" of individuals, families, races, corporations, and communities.

    Please go to www.radicalforgiveness.com to learn more about Colin and other Radical Forgiveness strategies.

  • Everything you need to know in seven words.

    Everything I think about the nature of this life comes down to seven words.

    Everything is connected
    everything changes;
    pay attention.

    And really , you only need to know the last two - if you're paying attention, you'll find out whatever else you need to know.

    --Jane Hirshfield.

  • Why there are no pidges around

    I found out why the Pidges have deserted my balcony.

    It's because they have been terrorised and by my own flesh and blood too, I am sorry to say.

    Truth is, the Prof watered my plants while I was away and the Pidges had startled him, as they do, by flying in front of him as he opens the balcony door.

    There's no messing with the Prof. :no: Not only does he chase them away but also sprays Mrs Pidges nest with detergent,

    Horrors ! ( but very effective )

    I haven't seen them since. :(

    Awww .. I miss them .... I complain to him.

    But you wanted rid of them , says he.

    Awwww but not like that :(

    I miss my babies and feel sad :(

    *sighs*

  • Autumn approaching

    It's too soon.

    I'm not ready yet.

    I want it to be summer.:( *pouts*

    Darker evenings, colder nights , 16C instead of 25C .

    Plants and flowers have done theirs for this year , with the exception of the magenta geranium that is still going strong. Bless.

    I dug up about a pound of potatoes :>>:yes::DD all because I stuck a sprouting potato in a pot of soil this spring :) That felt good.

  • KTHUDdddddd

    What was that ?

    Only the IKEA 2009 catalogue :)

    This happens every year. Some of us note it in our diaries, ever since Lina 's summer job which involved delivering the damn things. People would get them at different times depending on their postal code :)

    X

  • Mumbles and morning escapades

    Good morning :)

    Sun is shining and it is quite warm 20C I think. Today the autumn mists of yesterday have been stuffed away in a drawer somewhere.

    I set my alarm for 8:30 as I had a physio appointment across the road at 9.45.

    Made the mistake of logging on to check email and blogland and arrived 5 minutes late not having had any breakfast. Had a shower and brushed teeth though :)

    10 minutes of warm up cycling was MURDER . Fredrik , the therapist stood next to me and chatted while I huffed and puffed away with the effort. It's not easy to cycle and chat , especially while still hald asleep :))

    Next the exercises ..walking up and down the hall so he can check teh way I walk. Wiggled hips, giggled and called him a perv ( I can be a right flirt / pain in the proverbial if I so choose ) I did have to point out that I was joking and asked him if he understood that . He's trained in Oz so I assumed he would be used to this kind of banter. Calling someone a " perv" is quite is more serious in Swedish culture , I found. Yet another lesson in cultural awareness and sensitivity training. :sigh: It was all ok though. We continued to do the exercises , no problem. All is well. I'll be having breakfast soon ;)

  • Soubise

    Never heard pf SOUBISE before , have you ? Think I'll make this tomorrow. It sounds yummy.
    SOUBISE
    SERVES 4-6

    Soubise is a kind of French risotto made with long grain rice instead of Italian, short rounded rice. Unlike risotto, it is not stirred during cooking but left to absorb the wine and stock as it gently simmers. I've added the fennel to the onion for an even sweeter, more delicate flavour and, if you wish, add sautéed mushrooms or spinach towards the end of the cooking time.
    You could also serve it straight from the pan, simply garnished with fresh herbs, rather than bake it with breadcrumbs but this does give it a homely feel which makes it perfect for family meals.

    60g/ 2½oz butter or margarine
    600g/1lb 4oz onions, diced
    2 cloves garlic, finely chopped (optional)
    1 bulb fennel, chopped into 1cm/½ in dice
    500g/1lb Basmati rice
    150ml/6fl oz dry white wine
    350ml/12fl oz hot water or light vegetable stock
    1 bay leaf
    75g/3oz fresh vegetarian parmesan cheese
    50ml/2fl oz double cream
    125g/5oz fresh white breadcrumbs
    1 bunch fresh chives, snipped very small
    salt and freshly ground black pepper

    Melt the butter in a pan and cook the onion and garlic gently, with the lid on, for about 30 minutes, adding the fennel about half way through, until tender but not browned.

    Add the rice and stir for 10 minutes. Pour in the wine and hot stock together with salt and the bay leaf.

    Bring to a simmer, stir and then cover the pan and cook for 15-20 minutes until the liquid is absorbed and the rice tender.

    Remove the bay leaf and stir in the vegetarian parmesan and double cream.

    Pre-heat the oven to Gas Mark 6. Lightly butter an ovenproof dish and fill with the rice mixture.

    Sprinkle the breadcrumbs mixed with the chives over the rice and bake in the pre-heated oven for 15 minutes until the breadcrumbs are a pale golden colour.

    Serve with a green salad and steamed broccoli tossed in olive oil and grain mustard.

    :wave: night night all xxxx's

  • Cranks

    I used to go to Cranks fabulous vegetarian restaurant Carnaby street , every time I was in London and near busy Oxofrd street. It was a delightful wholesome haven away from the grease and grime , hustle and bustle of Oxford Street. There was one in Covent Garden- but alas no more. I still have the cookery book though and that too is falling apart from use. The gingernut recipe is from that book .

    Anyway , I googled and found this link and some tasty looking recipes too

    http://www.cranks.co.uk/recipes

    :)

    X

  • Gingernuts for Meno

    Gingernuts

    Really dark crunchy biscuits - Cranks recipe.

    60 g butter
    175g wholemeal self-raising flour ( we don’t have self -raising flour so I also add threequarters of a teaspoon of baking powder )
    60g raw brown sugar
    100g black treacle
    3.75ml ( three quarters of a teaspoon ) bicarbonate of soda
    2 tsp ,( 10 ml ) ground ginger

    Put all the ingredients into a mixer and mix to form a soft dough.

    Place balls the size of a walnut, well apart, on tray covered with baking paper

    Bake in oven 180C ( 350F, Mark 4 ) for about 15 minutes.
    Allow to cool slightly on the baking sheet before transferring to wire tray.

    Makes about 15 biscuits.

    * these are nice dipped in melted chocolate ;-)

  • Happy Birthday Amaletska !

    Happy Birthday , Amaletska , my dear Siberian Spanish friend.:wave: of

    http://dreamsblog.blog.co.uk

    from : http://www.artandwords.com

    Love and Light

    x

  • 18 08 08

    Today's date , 18 08 08 looks good.
    25 = 7

    or 18 08 2008 reduces to 27 and 9

    Number 9 .. number 9 .. number 9

    Don't mind me .. just mumbling away to myself.
    My mind and soul at the moment are holding The Goddess , and the Kabbalah.
    Sometimes it feels like plugging in directly to a nuclear power station
    not a wise thing to do
    must always remember the adapter and the transformer :))
    short circuiting or blowing a fuse is not something I desire.

    In my dream last night I was in another dimension.
    I'm in a huge hospital or nursery .. the sort where plants and seedlings are grown ...huge cathedral-like rooms ...z warehouse with bright lights shining down from the beams to nurture the little plants. I can see mini snowdrops, bluebells , grasses and herbs.

    There's also a team of people, doctors ? scientists ? who check for bugs and germs. One man takes a peace of meat and holds it above one of the seedling trays. He then passes an instrument or scanner over the meat that has been contaminated. Action needs to be taken and he sees to fixing it. There is no sense of panic - normal checking procedure :)

    I also travel through huge dining rooms were dishes of all sorts are being served.Meat dishes and vegetarian. There are patients in wheelchairs and others eating there.

    After a while of wandering around , I get lost and someone shows me the way out. I have a hopeless sense of direction ;)) Then I wake up :)

  • Mists , rain and candlight supper

    Dark outside now . Drizzle and mists , but still warm. The living room window is open and the balcony door too. No sign of the moon. She's hiding behind the seven veils ;)

    My lazy day took an active turn when a friend invited herself over. I showered dressed and popped out to the shop for a few supplies. In just over an hour I'd made bread, soup and gingernut biscuits :) Felt a sens of satisfaction. Achievement :)

    Friend arrived with a bottle of Masi red wine , Perfect. Bread , soft blue cheese, "creme de potage aux carottes parfumée des epices indiennes " lousy French I know , but sounds better than cream of carrot soup mildly spiced with Indian spices :)) It was surprisingly yummy :) conversation flowed and we had a really good evening. I'll do the dishes tomorrow :yes:

    :wave: xx

  • Divine decadence

    It's one of those dull , rainy overcast Sundays.
    Got up at noon and have been reading , smiling , chuckling and commenting on posts here in Blogland.

    :)

    Still half naked and not in the least ashamed.

    Total freedom to do what Iike.

    :)

    or not do .....

    I really enjoyed breakfast and the taste of it lingers on.
    I feel all warm and fuzzy inside as I connect with souls here on the world wide web.

    I know that this feeling too will pass... but I am enjoying it while it lasts :)

    Thank you thank you thank you ALL :)

    X

  • Full moon

    Her energies are really strong tonight. Found this on the web

    "by the light of the Moon
    I dream
    by the light of my soul
    I see
    with understanding and light
    I dream through the night "

    Night night all ..... I'm off to moonbathe :wave:

    XX

  • For Tylluanpenry and others

    Beannacht
    ("Blessing")

    On the day when
    the weight deadens
    on your shoulders
    and you stumble,
    may the clay dance
    to balance you.
    And when your eyes
    freeze behind
    the grey window
    and the ghost of loss
    gets in to you,
    may a flock of colours,
    indigo, red, green,
    and azure blue
    come to awaken in you
    a meadow of delight.
    When the canvas frays
    in the currach of thought
    and a stain of ocean
    blackens beneath you,
    may there come across the waters
    a path of yellow moonlight
    to bring you safely home.
    May the nourishment of the earth be yours,
    may the clarity of light be yours,
    may the fluency of the ocean be yours,
    may the protection of the ancestors be yours.
    And so may a slow
    wind work these words
    of love around you,
    an invisible cloak
    to mind your life.

    ~ John O'Donohue ~

  • Wander

    " Wander where there is no path.
    There's no time like the present " to get lost ".
    Realise that a path has many expressions :
    Exploring creativity, indulging intuition , pursuing a relationship .
    Choose one, and get lost on the pathless Path today . "

  • Longing

    It's been with me all day this longing. I'm thinking of my friend Daz who was in Irland last year and is now in NewZealand. I'm longing for one of his hugs and a nice long cosy chat.

    X:**:

  • Memories

    Ancient memories.... They pop up on waking sometimes or while sitting on the loo or in the shower.

    This morning I was back at my old primary school in Idle. A C of E primary school.

    I was wandering round the old dark Yorkshire stone school building adjacent to the church , through all the rooms of the school and the different classrooms.

    One year, our classroom over looked the graveyard and I would gaze out onto the graves and sometimes watch funerals.
    I remember ballet classes on Saturdays.

    Jane Rawson , a young and beautiful ballerina, held classes there. Once we all took part in a dancing display that she organised. It was a huge project involving all her family. An old aunt set up shop in the village and we would go there to be fitted for our costumes. The tiny cave-like shop was crammed full of colourful netting, satin and silk, sequins, feathers and glitter and we would be measured and fitted for our costumes.

    The actual dancing display was in a real theatre in Bradford.We got the whole experience of being on stage; behind stage prep, makeup , waiting and rehersals, and the glory of applause in bright lights.

    How enterprising of Jane and her family I can appreciate now, getting it all together.

    Names return... Mr Hague , the stern pompous headmaster. Nasty man. Marguerite Wilkinson a favourite teacher, a wild woman, eccentric and different, artistic, loved nature walks, masses of dark curly hair; Mr Bruce who taught history and was funny , smelled of tobacco, dressed in tweed and coughed a lot. He had red hair, I think he might have been Scottish.

    Dennis Shaw was a naughty boy who got caned and was blamed for things that went wrong. I felt sorry for him. Some boys stole bottles from the grocer's shop and returned them to get the deposits back :)) Enterprising ;) Margaret and Kathleen Maw , the twins, Brenda Donnelli , Peter Marsh, Christopher Timms, Margaret Pashley, Josaphine feather.

    Funny how names return ........

  • Impromptu dinner

    Soul sister , Gunilla rang and invited me over for dinner.I love these spontaneous invites and it was great to leave mess and clutter behind. My home is chaos for about a week as I unpack after being away.

    It was lovely sharing holiday experiences. Gunilla had spent three weeks travelling around visiting friends in Gotland and the south of Sweden and was looking great- brown as a berry.

    Baked salmon for dinner , with peppers stuffed with chevre and a lush green salad with avocado and cherry tomatoes. Yum . Icecream and fresh raspberries for dessert laced with Gran Marnier......oh la la .... absolutely divine !

    G. tried to download pics from her mobile phone into her MacLappy , but neither of us could work out how to do it. :( I don't have a camera in my phone and the technology remains a mystery to me. G's MacLappy is also bigger, sleaker and more sophisticated than mine . With mine I just connect the camera to the computer, and it does the rest - easy peasy - the rest is just a matter of clicking.

    The Gran Marnier really hit me as I meandered to the bus stop. Had to wait 15 minutes , but it was lovely wait. A mild evening, gentle warm breeze. As i dragged myself up the hill to my home , the lady moon shone down on me in all her glory and once again , I was home on the stroke of midnight :)

  • Stick and moonstones

    You know how it is when some beautiful thing says " I'm yours, take me home. Hold me. Keep me close to you.Love me. I'm yours. " I don't have the heart to resist.

    He comes from Somerset and is free from chemicals and fertilisers., but I found him in Avebury. " Cut in winter , then seasoned for one year before being straightenedand finished by hand " ;)

    My hand hovered over him and clasped itself over his polished head where he was standing together with his mates. I 'd asked the Goddess for support and there it was. Someone to lean on.

    Mr Ash Coppice Knob and I sailed through customs too. One official actually admired him. Enchanted they were , Bewitched.



    I am grateful :)

    XX

  • Hagabulle for Meno


    Took a walk around HagaPark after my appoinhtment at the hospital today . Varsågod, Meno , Hagabulle , cardemon cinnamon bun for you. A crazy wasp wanted it too and wouldn't leave me alone :))

    A hare ran out from the bushes right in front of me and I also saw a red squirrel frolic around in the trees. :)

  • VIP treatment at Rancho Collapso

    " It's a 10 minute walk from the station and the nearest glass of wine " said Shipscook and he did not lie. All true. :yes:

    I was met at Charing Cross by the charming Shipscook and escorted through tunnels and up and down steps top the right tube line. No longer an " Oyster virgin " I still appreciated the reminders to swipe the card at appropriate places.

    Bohemian , inspiring, comfortable and cosy Rancho Collapso is accessible via Sainsburies, so we arrived laden with foodstuffs to add to the huge amounts of wine and food already there. It's a charming house and garden , full of rooms and bathrooms. Jacuzzi on arrival ( I must have smelled a bit off :)) ) and emerged fragrant and squeaky clean. :) dressed for dinner in silky kaftan thingy purchased in African shop near Finsbury Park.

    OldNick gave up his bright orange room for me , full of pirate stuff and pirate vibes. I slept like a log and dreamt pirate dreams all night only top forget them the next day.

    Tapas ... oh the Tapas ..... lots of yummy things to try, some familiar such as taramasalata and hummus and some exotic and delicate such as quails eggs. Very nice.

    Dwink .. oh the dwinkies ...... I got to try mead which was fantastic and a weird night cap consisting of rum and something else .... an acquired taste, I think ;)

    Lots of late nights and early mornings. Moff is the only person that is allowed to sleep . Much talking and laughing.

    I received artwork artistically signed by a budding young artist who kept us entertained that first evening.

    MrsF tirelessly supervises the smooth running of things and excursions and has an amazing way of ensuring flow and harmony throughout ; a gracious and caring hostess. Nothing seems to be too much trouble.

    Breakfast is a real treat , expertly cooked and served by Shipscook and brought up to one's room :yes: Luxury, I tell you.. I did hear it was a cunning plan to ensure that bathrooms were free and available in the morning but works like a charm.:yes: No complaints whatseover.

    Food , as I mentioned before is plentiful , HOT and spicy and very yummy. Mrs F's lentil soup and spicy tuna and prawn soup are to die for. I hope she posts the recipe ;) Shipscook's monkfish curry is already posted, I think. Very yummy and very hot. :yes:

    Three unforgettable days. Thank you all at Rancho Collapso *mwaaah* kisses and hugs !

    XXXXX

  • Checking in

    Tele 2 phoned at 8:30 this morning asking if I wanted mobile broadband. :roll: " Did I wake you ?" asks Karin " Yes as a matter of fact you did " I'm going to have to get NIX .. the service that blocks these calls :yes:

    Trying to work out watering solutions for plants. The neighbours I would ask are away. Water all over the floor....moppping up in progress.

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